Staying Intentional—Even with Every Sale in Your Inbox
The day after Thanksgiving, most people are refreshing carts, chasing discount codes, and running toward the next big sale. But this year, instead of shopping, my kids and I spent the day inside the Ice Cream Museum — eating sprinkles, laughing until our cheeks hurt, and taking the most ridiculous photos.
And somewhere between the giant pink scoops and the sprinkle pool, it hit me:
I don’t remember a single thing I bought last Black Friday.
But I’ll always remember how my kids laughed that day.
Experiences stay with us.
The feelings stay with us.
That’s the magic.
And honestly?
It’s the same with our clothes.
The Pieces You Actually Remember Aren’t the Ones You Got on Sale
You don’t remember the price tag (well, sometimes you do 😉 ).
You remember how something made you feel.
The blazer that instantly makes you stand taller.
The jeans that fit perfectly every single time.
The sweater you reach for because it just… works.
Style confidence isn’t created by buying more things.
It’s created when you buy better — when you choose pieces intentionally, thoughtfully, and in alignment with who you are.
That’s why I always say:
Your closet isn’t missing more. It’s missing clarity.
Why You Don’t Need Everything on Sale
Black Friday creates this little rush of urgency — the pressure to grab the deal before it disappears. But your wardrobe shouldn’t be built from panic, impulse, or FOMO.
The truth?
Most “sale buys” become clutter.
Most trend pieces don’t last.
Most impulse purchases don’t get worn.
And most of us already own more clothes than we realize.
What we actually want is to feel good in what we wear — every single day.
And that starts with intention, not accumulation.
A Style Experience Lasts Longer Than Any Sale Item
Just like that afternoon with my kids, the most meaningful things aren’t things. They’re experiences.
A closet edit.
A color analysis.
A styling session that helps you see your wardrobe with fresh eyes.
A few key pieces that are truly right for you.
A style experience doesn’t end when the appointment does.
It stays with you.
It changes the way you get dressed every morning.
It saves you money because you stop buying what you don’t need.
It gives you the confidence you’ve been craving — without the overwhelm.
It’s memorable the way a joyful day with your family is memorable.
Because it shifts something inside.
If You’re Feeling Pulled Into the Sales This Season…
Just pause for a moment and ask yourself:
Do I really need this — or am I looking for a feeling?
Because the feeling you’re after — confidence, ease, clarity, joy — doesn’t come from more stuff. It comes from understanding your style, knowing what works, and choosing thoughtfully.
And that clarity lasts far longer than any Black Friday deal.
Something Fun Is Coming… The 12 Days of Intentional Style
And because I do love a beautifully curated wardrobe — the pieces that truly earn their place — I’m doing something special this year.
Starting December 2, I’ll be sharing…
The 12 Days of Intentional Style
my top picks in 12 different categories, each with:
a budget-friendly option
a mid-range option
and a luxe, elevated favorite
Think: my absolute crème-de-la-crème recommendations…
not impulse buys, not clutter…
but the pieces that actually work for real wardrobes.
This isn’t about buying more.
It’s about buying better if you choose to shop —
and feeling more confident in your style all year long.
I can’t wait to share these with you.
If you want a more intentional approach to your wardrobe before the series launches, you can explore my styling experiences here.
Because when you feel good in your clothes… everything gets easier. 💛